Then the reasoning behind that much you'll have to ask Hansa about directly--this whole thing was mostly his idea rather than mine. But I'm not out to get him to break any sacred oaths or anything like that.
Truthfully, I have no idea what he could be thinking. But I trust he has his boundaries on what that means.
I don't plan to ask about his reasoning. Like I said, your relationship is between him and you. There's no reason to answer to me.
As far as I'm concerned, the church has much greater crimes to answer for than a priest dating another adult. I have a lifetime of memories that prove that much. But I also know the church is not without its politics. If Father Hansa crosses the wrong person, something like this could put him under investigation.
So if that happens, I rather pretend I don't know anything, to avoid incriminating my father. And it's easier to do that if I don't actually know anything.
That's fair reasoning. Probably the smartest approach, too--there's safety in secrecy when it comes to matters like this.
But it's as you say--he's essentially your father, and I'm aware you and I have a habit of conflicting at times. So I just wouldn't want you to be worried, if hypothetically you were and there was anything I can do to set your mind at ease.
Hell if I know what that is, but far be it from me to question matters of taste.
And yeah, I got that impression a while ago. The Church back home is just as dangerous as our Association, if not more so. Even if I wanted to--and obviously I don't--I know better than to cross a priest.
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I'd just like clarity before I wind up putting my foot in my mouth again at some point.
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Truthfully, I have no idea what he could be thinking. But I trust he has his boundaries on what that means.
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As far as I'm concerned, the church has much greater crimes to answer for than a priest dating another adult. I have a lifetime of memories that prove that much. But I also know the church is not without its politics. If Father Hansa crosses the wrong person, something like this could put him under investigation.
So if that happens, I rather pretend I don't know anything, to avoid incriminating my father. And it's easier to do that if I don't actually know anything.
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But it's as you say--he's essentially your father, and I'm aware you and I have a habit of conflicting at times. So I just wouldn't want you to be worried, if hypothetically you were and there was anything I can do to set your mind at ease.
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And he is very capable, so if you do something to hurt him you'll be the one to regret it.
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And yeah, I got that impression a while ago. The Church back home is just as dangerous as our Association, if not more so. Even if I wanted to--and obviously I don't--I know better than to cross a priest.
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As long as you're aware of the lion's den you're stepping into.
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These things come with risks, I think Hansa and I both understand that well.
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Mm, I suppose you do.